QUIZ: Is He or She the One?

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You may think you love everything about your boyfriend or girlfriend– from the way they walk to the way the world settles around you when you’re together. He may be the closest you’ve ever been to a dream guy, but are you sure he’s the guy? Or the girl? Before investing in an engagement ring and in a lifetime together, take this quiz to see if they are really the woman you’ve been waiting for.

1. First things first -- how long have you been together?
More than a year -- I can’t imagine my life without her.
About a year -- and while it hasn’t always been perfect, we’re really in love.
Less than three months -- but it’s going great!
Around six months. Things are really starting to ignite!

2. How do you feel when you’re around him or her?
Mostly great. We’ve been able to weed through storms together and come out on top. I’m confident in our ability to make it through everything.
I always feel great, but a little uneasy at times. We don’t know each other extremely well, so I’m still finding my footing.
I feel so at home with them. I know it won’t always be easy, but with them, I know it’ll always be worth it.
Pretty okay. We have yet to have an argument!

3. Have you talked about money?
Yes. I have a brief knowledge of their future financial goals and they knows mine, too.
Somewhat -- but I’m not sure on their financial situation. They don’t really know about mine either.
Extensively! We have actually considered getting a joint bank account because we’re so comfortable discussing assets.
No way! It’s too early to get that personal.

4. Do you see eye-to-eye on children?
They want children and so do I, but our time frames are off. They’d rather get started earlier, I’d rather wait a few years.
We do mostly. They want three, I want two -- but I’m sure we could compromise.
We haven’t talked about it yet -- but they have casually mentioned they don’t want them. And I know I do.
Yes. I know they’d be an excellent parent, too.

5. Have you talked about husband and wife roles within the household? Do you agree?
We’ve briefly discussed how we see roles and we agree mostly. There are little things we’d have to compromise about, but overall I think it’d work fine.
They come from a family of two working parents and I’d prefer my spouse to stay at home with the kids.
We haven’t talked about it yet, but I think she wants to stay home. I don’t know if I make enough money to support both of us if we had children.
Yes, we actually live together, so we’re already getting a taste of what it’s like to share responsibilities.

6. Let’s get personal: how’s your sex life? Do your drives match?
It’s awesome. We’ve been together for a while, so it’s not as frequent as it was when we first started dating, but it’s still really awesome. We don’t always want to have it at the same time, but we are understanding of each other’s needs.
We’ve only had sex a few times and it’s been great. She’s not the best I’ve ever had, but it could get better.
We’re not perfectly in sync, but we’ve been able to talk about it and improve our sexual chemistry. Now, it’s amazing!
We have mismatched sex drives -- they only want it half the time I do and only at nighttime, when I’m not in the mood. It’s caused some stress in our relationship.

7. Do your families get along? How do the folks feel about them?
Only recently did we meet each other’s families and it went really well. Our parents seem to have good vibes about our relationship.
We’ve met each other’s parents, but our families haven’t met one another. My parents aren’t crazy about them -- they think I could meet someone who is better matched for me, but I disagree.
Met? Our families are basically best friends by now.
We haven’t met each other’s families but I think we’d get along. I really don’t know too much about her background just yet.

8. Be honest -- have you talked about marriage?
Occasionally. We both want to get married, but we haven’t expressed that we’d like to get married to one another. I do feel like my partner could see themselves marrying me.
Only when we’ve been watching a movie or reading something that depicts a marriage or a proposal. We haven’t discussed it in terms of our relationship.
Are you crazy? If I brought up this topic, I’d be terrified they’d freak out. I’m not sure if they’ve thought about it yet.
Yes. We have more or less said that we’re each other’s soulmates

9. How would you describe how you and your partner communicate?
Really well. We have arguments, sure, but overall, we work hard to make sure the other person feels heard and appreciated. I feel very comfortable telling my partner what I think and feel about everything.
We actually don’t communicate that well, as much as I hate to admit it. I’m more positive, they’re more negative. They like to hide their feelings, I don’t. We often get in arguments. But we always overcome them!
We’re working on it. We’re both open to communicating healthier with the other person so that our relationship can get stronger.
We’ve yet to have a big fight or a disagreement, but when everything is peachy-keen between us, we get along great. I’m not sure how we communicate when times are tough.

10. The most important question of all: what does your gut tell you? Do you really think they’re the one you want to spend the rest of your life with?
I really care about this person and haven’t felt this way in a long time, but I don’t know if they’re my soulmate.
I’m almost 100 percent sure that I’m going to marry this incredible person.
I think they could be. I’m not one hundred percent sure, but I’m really hopeful. And very happy.
I really don’t know. I want them to be the one -- I’m so tired of dating -- but I’m not sure if they are.

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Comments (8)

1. a27luckywoman@yahoo.com says:

   August 30, 2014 at 3:44 pm

   Idk….the answers they provide barely cover my answer….i found myself choosing alot of close but not quite answers

2. sara says:

   October 23, 2014 at 6:33 pm

   same also all the anwsers about kids in all the quizes iv done on this site seem to assume all women want kids, thats not the case or like my case i want to adopt but am opposed to having biological children where as my partner would prefer biological, obviously these quizes are just for fun but its just a really outdated assumption that all couples should want to breed

3. Little Davey says:

   January 30, 2016 at 12:35 pm

   The answers are too long

4. Cumbay says:

   January 30, 2016 at 6:36 pm

   No comments!

5. Ashley says:

   February 16, 2016 at 6:29 am

   Thst was fun

6. Emalie says:

   April 28, 2016 at 10:24 am

   wow this was amazeballs

7. gaby says:

   January 25, 2018 at 11:54 am

   OMG this is gret now we can finally get married!! <3

8. Chad says:

   March 2, 2018 at 6:09 pm

   Love it