Question: So my boyfriend was kinda questioning when the last time aunt sally came to town (if you know what I mean) and then he said oh ok. I said: “Why do you ask?” He said “because it wouldn’t be the end of the world, having a baby with you.” That’s exactly how he wrote it. We have been together a year at the end of April but shouldn’t he be proposing to me first and thinking about getting married to me and popping the question before he thinks about a baby? What do you think?
Answer: I think that it’s a really good sign he wants to have a baby with you. Before getting into weddings and engagements, you should keep on talking with him about family plans. Share with each other how you both envision your future. Then things should fall naturally into place and you can tell him that marriage is important for you.