While browsing online I came across this new book The Purity Myth by Jessica Valenti. The book intelligently critiques the growing fascination in North America with virginity and “purity” and why our obsession with it is ruining young girls.

But, to bring this topic back to engagements, although the author argues that sex is not a big deal and does not determine the morality of a woman, I’m sure there are still several couples out there who are thinking of getting engaged but are certain they want to wait until they’re married before doing the deed.

I haven’t read the book yet, but the topic is current and echoes the growing popularity of abstinence-only education and saving oneself for one person. But does keeping that commitment later affect the relationship or does it aid in the relationship’s favor? Whether it’s for religious reasons or just personal preference, who here is planning to wait until marriage? Do you think media and society played a role in your decision?