Former bachelorette Ali Fedotowsky appears happy being engaged to Roberto Martinez, but she's postponed the wedding twice. Photo courtesy of E! News.

The stars of the reality shows The Bachelor and The Bachelorette seem to be cursed. With the exception of few, most of the ones who get paired on the show don’t ever make it down the aisle.

After postponing the wedding because of knee surgery, Bachelorette Ali Fedotowsky seems to be following a similar path. She called off the wedding with Roberto Martinez. According to PEOPLE magazine, she said there was just too much “pressure” and that the wedding was “complicated.”

However the engagement still continues…?

“We’re still engaged; we’re still living together. We just don’t feel the need to walk down the aisle right now,” she said according to PEOPLE magazine.

I guess I don’t really understand. Being engaged means you feel the need to walk down the aisle, right? What throws me even more is that she said she views him like her husband anyway.

“In my mind, Roberto is my husband. We live together, we do everything together, we plan for the future together, we fight just like a good, old married couple,” she said according to E! news.

But if you view him as a husband… then why not get married? Maybe there’s more than what she’s letting on. However, as a Bachelorette fan, I really hope that things work out for these two.

But what do you think? Is anyone else confused by this called off wedding and continued playing house? How long should you stay engaged?

Nikki