In the old days of romance, men would risk life and limb to prove their worth to the lady of their dreams. If he could slay a dragon, save her kingdom, or go on a life-threatening quest, then he was worthy of her hand in marriage.
Some may say romance and chivalry are a dead art form, but it’s refreshing to see a man actually do something daring for a change when it comes to asking the most important question of a lifetime.
Yes, I know we don’t live in a fairy tale. And sure, I’ll even admit there’s a shortage on dragons these days. But taking a risk and making yourself vulnerable really does make for a heart-stopping proposal.
Need an example? I found this video on YouTube the other day and it blew me away. How can you not say “Yes!” to a man willing to throw himself off a building for you?
Guys: Would you throw yourself off a roof for your woman?
Girls: Would you find this romantic or be angry for him nearly sending you into cardiac arrest?
Nikki
I think this is dumb… I’m sorry, chivalry is dead, but by doing a proposal like this, the guy is making it about him instead of about the couple. If my guy ever did that, I would say no because pretending to die is not a funny thing. Nor is it romantic.
* Not dead…
took a page out of Ryan Goslings book with this one. I’d be terrified, but would probably say yes even with no intention to follow through with the marriage, to prevent certain death…
This one’s a little much.
I much prefer the calm Christmas Eve Morning proposal I received, just after breakfast, very sincere, no threats of bodily danger or harm involved
At first I thought it was the coolest thing ever. Then I read Megan’s comment and I tend to agree. Throw myself off a building? Hmmm…probably. As long as that big cushy thing is waiting for me at the bottom. (BTW: There are more dragons than ever these days. They’re just not the scaly kind that fly around. It is no small feat to commit to each other in this culture.) Very cool video though…