Three worst things to say during a proposal

There’s no right or wrong way to proposing, but there are probably a couple of things that may be more taboo than good. Especially with the words being said leading up to the proposal– those words are something girls DREAM about. They want to remember every word! So, while you don’t need to be the next Shakespeare, you may want to avoid these not-so romantic proposal wording faux pas’s.

1) So…you know…what do you ya say?
The phrase “will you marry me” may seem cliche, but it’s actually a very important component to any proposal. You don’t HAVE to phrase it that way. But there should be a question in there somewhere and it should be specific. Less than eloquently uttering a “whadyasay?” is not okay, no matter how nervous you are. At least practice saying, “Will you be my wife” or “Will you make me the happiest man alive” a couple of times before getting down on one knee.

2) I know you’ve been expecting this for awhile….
It doesn’t matter if your lady picked out her own ring or already started planning the wedding, DO NOT cheapen your proposal by insinuating that there was no surprise factor or that she’s been nagging you to finally pop the question. That’s not romantic. Or special. It’s actually kind of lame. Don’t be lame.

3) Nothing.
Sure, actions speak louder than words…but really? You need to say a little something when asking the question. After all ASKING is an important part to asking someone to marry you. Just opening a box and showing her the ring doesn’t equal a proposal. I know it works for some, but honestly, if my fiance had done that, I would have excitedly stared at him until something was said. Avoid awkward pauses and just utter at least “Will you marry me?” for both your sakes.

Nikki

Keira Knightley’s Engagement Ring!

Looks like a heat wave hit London these past few days! Actress Keira Knightley, 27, was spotted walking the streets of London with her brand new engagement ring. Her new fiancé, James Righton, proposed with a simple and elegant round shape diamond on a gold band.

Images via Perez Hilton

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John Apel

3 do’s and a don’t for birthday proposals

It’s my birthday today, so in the spirit of all things cake, presents and getting old, I thought a birthday-themed post was in order. Now this is a sticky issue with many people. To propose on a girl’s birthday or not? Well, my friends. There is always a right and a wrong way to do things. Here are a few tips on how to propose effectively on your lady’s special day.

1) Get her a gift that helps you propose (hint: NOT THE RING)
Let’s be honest, if you call your engagement ring her birthday gift, you’re not scoring any points. So get her a gift any tie it in with the proposal. Check out this guy here. He buys his girlfriend a digital picture frame and tells her all the pictures are already on it. He asks her to watch all of them and at the very end, a picture pops up of him holding the ring with the words “Will You Marry Me?” Before it registers, he’s already down on one knee. Skip ahead to 3:43 to check it out.

2) Switch it up and propose on YOUR birthday
Sure, it makes sense you’d want to propose on her birthday. After you want to make it special for her. But propose on YOUR birthday and she’ll be completely caught off guard. Plus you can make it sound like all you want for your birthday is a “Yes.”

3) Make a romantic day out of it and then surprise her at the end
This guy takes his lady out for a romantic picnic and day, then runs off to surprise her with her birthday present that she knew was coming: A PUPPY! Then, last minute, he proposes. Talk about a day filled with tons of surprises.

DON’T PUT THE RING ON THE CAKE. Hello. Chocking Hazard?

Nikki

The world’s first ever “live lip-dub” proposal

I have never seen anything quite like this. And honestly, blown away does not even begin to describe my reaction to this proposal video. It starts with the girl sitting on the back of a car facing the street listening to a song with head phones on. Suddenly family and friends start doing little parts of the song, acting it out an lip syncing, as the car drives down the street.

Over 60 people are involved in this– including some marching band members and what appears to be friends on webcams.

It is the most well-coordinated, well-thought out, most romantic, coolest proposal I have ever seen. I don’t even know the guy and I’m pretty sure I would have said “yes” too.

There are really no words to describe how truly awesome this is.  And honestly, I’m surprised this video doesn’t have millions of views yet. So enjoy being among the first to see what I think is hands down the world’s coolest proposal ever.

What do you think of this proposal?

Nikki

Beautiful waterfall proposal reflects couple’s personality

It’s very important to make the proposal personal in some way. Some guys use their words. Other’s use the setting.

This guy was half of an outdoorsy couple. Apparently all the milestones in their relationship happened outside and even their first date was at a park. It was only natural to have his proposal planned perfectly in front of one of nature’s most beautiful spectacles: a waterfall. But of course, he wanted to make it more special than that.

The Heart Bandits, a proposal planning company, helped him plan his perfect proposal. The couple went on an early morning hike to a waterfall. In the middle of the hike, a guitar player started playing their song. Then a group of people all lined up on a bridge start shouting.

Apparently, at first the bride-to-be was annoyed by the shouting because she figured a proposal was about to happen and thought it was ruining the moment….well until she looked at the people shouting, that is. They all held up umbrellas that spelled out “Will You Marry Me.” It was perfectly coordinated.

Check out this beautiful proposal by The Heart Bandits and tell us what you think!

Priscilla Zuckerberg’s Engagement Ring Picture

Some might have expected a much more impressive engagement ring for Mark Zuckerberg’s new Wife Priscilla Chan. But maybe she’ll enjoy more this classy engagement ring than a flashy oversize diamond. TMZ released images of this “simple ruby”, check it out! Red is a color that brings good lick in Asia and it’s the year of the dragon!

Image via TMZ.

Four ways not to over-obsess about when he’ll pop the question

So you’ve been with him for what seems like forever. We get it. You’re anxious. You know he’s the one. You know he knows you’re the one. So what the heck is he waiting for?

Sadly, we may never know what goes on in a guys head. And it can definitely be killer when you know he wants to marry you, and probably soon, but you just don’t know when.

But trust us. You don’t want to be that girl. You know. The girl who whines about why he hasn’t proposed yet. The girl who makes slight jabs in front of friends about what’s taking him so long.  And of course, the girl who cries and cries about how long she has to wait.

Please. Don’t be that girl. It may be hard, but we have you covered on ways to avoid the over-obsessing.

1) Make it a point to never mention being anxious to friends.
Sure, your friends may bring it up and ask, “So Julie, why hasn’t Kevin popped the big Q yet?” But if you give in to those inquiries, you’ll drive yourself mad. Instead of replying, “Oh my gosh I have no idea what’s taking him so long!” try to redirect the question or just exude indifference. Answers like, “I’m sure he will when the time is right” or “I don’t know. I guess that’s why they call it a surprise” also work. When you act as if you don’t care, you’ll feel less stressed about it.

2) Don’t bug him about it.
If you keep nagging him about when’s he going to propose, you may stress the poor boy out so much that he won’t know what  to do with himself. Or he may even get angry and not want to propose just because he thinks you’re acting like a brat. If you MUST complain about what’s taking your fella, then pick ONE person like a sister, mother or maybe your closest friend who doesn’t blab to people. But if you don’t bug him, then he won’t be bugged by you. And if he’s not bugged by you, chances are you guys are living harmoniously in a stress-free zone and you’ll hardly notice he hasn’t proposed yet.

3) Don’t plan the wedding yet
Sure, that bridal show sounds awesome. But do you really want to walk around a million bridezillas and talk to vendors who will all ask you the same thing: When’s the date? Well, if you don’t have a date or a ring, it can get rather depressing. Trust me. I made this mistake. It’s probably best not to go to bridal shows until after he puts a ring on it.

4) Live in the moment
Don’t wish your life away. Enjoy your dating life while you can. Maybe you’re anxious because you’re not doing anything new as a couple and you feel like being engaged is just the next step. Well, even if it is, obsessing won’t do any good, so why not try to go out and do something new? Try a new class or activity together. Go on a picnic. Enjoy being together now instead of burning a hole in the back of his head while he plays Xbox as you try to send telepathic messages about how you want a princess cut instead. Not only is it a distraction, but it’ll bring you closer together as a couple.

What do you do to keep yourself from over-obsessing?
Nikki

Mark Zuckerberg Gives Bride Priscilla Chan a Ruby Engagement Ring!

Mark Zuckerberg surprised everyone this week-end, when he and his girlfriends Priscilla Chang, who have been together for over 9 years, got married. No one knew the couple was engaged!

Facebook billionaire Mark Zuckerberg gave his bride “a very simple ruby” as an engagement ring. He designed the ring himself.

What about you? Are you dreaming of a ruby engagement ring? What about this one?

Coast Diamond

A proposal that stops time

There are some moments you want to last forever. I know I’ve wished I could just snap my fingers and have time stand still– especially when my fiance proposed.

This guy tries to create the feeling literally with his proposal. They set up a room that his fiance is going to meet someone in. However, everyone in the room knows what’s going to happen. Some are even wearing hidden cameras. When her man walks in the room, at first she’s surprised. But then he snaps his fingers and the whole room falls still. Silence. People are mid-talking with their hands and taking sips from mugs, but they are instantly frozen as if time has actually stood still for what he’s about to say.

It really is a unique idea. I think it went well. I mean, he did get a “YES!” after all.

What do you think? Is this a cool proposal?
Nikki 

Three worst mistakes to make before proposing

The moment you pop the question needs to be just right. Every girl wants that fairy tale moment and every guy wants to give it to her. But there are a few things that could cause the big moment to be a big flop. Try to avoid these blunders and secure your picture perfect proposal.

1)  DON’T buy a ring without consulting anyone
Sure, you may want to surprise your lady, but that doesn’t mean you should blindly walk into a jewelry store and pick the first thing you see. Ask her friends, ask her family, and if you don’t mind, even ask her. The worst thing to do is buy a really flashy ring in the wrong style. Either go simple and classic or make sure your lady will love the ring if she has a particular style in mind.

2) DON’T plan a proposal without knowing her style first
If you have a shy girl, don’t make a grand gesture in front of the whole wide world. Show her Youtube videos of proposal flops and successes and see what tickles her fancy and what appalls her completely. Remember sometimes less is more.

3) DON’T do anything stupid
Hide the ring in a place you forgot? Propose over a body of water and drop the ring? Propose with the ring inside of a piece of food and choke your bride-to-be by accident. Seriously just pick up a copy of Engagement 101 and avoid these easy faux pas that could truly ruin your big moment.

Remember: Above all else, follow your heart. You know your girl better than we do. Do what you know she’ll like and you can’t go wrong. After all, she must like you already if you’re expecting a “Yes!”