How to Make Time to Get Your Groove On With Your Guy

 

Your incredible chemistry — in and out of the bedroom – is something you love about your relationship with your favorite guy. He not only has a knack for saying the right thing at the right time, but he can also canvas your body with one simple touch, making you feel things in places you didn’t know possible. Or at least, he used to. When you had time to spend afternoons lounging around in bed together, only getting up for pancakes or ordering in takeout.

Those days feel fewer and further away now that you’ve been together for so long. From a busy job that demands way more than 40 hours to bills to pay and friends to see, it’s hard to squeeze in date night, and even harder when you’re so exhausted the last thing you want to do is, you know, move.

But the longer you’re together (and hopefully when you’re sharing life as husband and wife), the more difficult it becomes to make time to make love. And while it may not seem like such a big deal right now, when stress starts to increase with babies and mortgages, being able to return to your bedroom to feel intimate together again will solve relationship woes down the road. The happiest of couples have sex at least three times a week – so make your goal to have even more (and yes, hotter!) sex than that. It doesn’t have to be a big production, skip those candles, music and rose petals and just get to it. Here’s how:

Have some incredible lazy sex

Indulge in your exhaustion by taking down the energy level. You don’t have to change positions four times to make sex amazing – instead, set your alarm for 15 minutes earlier than you normally do. And seize the day!

Make it fun

When you’re not having as much sex as you’d both like or you’re getting into the we-live-together-and-always-do-it-like-this routine, it’s hard to imagine other ways to getting dirty. But if you incorporate sex into everyday things, like cooking dinner, it becomes less of a task and more of a fun side dish.

Talk about it

Exploring your fantasies together isn’t an easy thing, especially if you already feel swamped for time. Instead, come up with ways to talk about what you really want in ways that make sense for both of you. Maybe you leave a note in his pocket about the way you want him to surprise you with sex in the kitchen one night or he sends you a dirty text about what he loves about your body. The options are endless, you just have to decide together what gets you both turned on.

By Aurora Brown

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