How to Get Him to Propose

 

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So you want to get engaged to the man of your dreams, but he just won’t pop the question? Then follow these three steps to help convince him to propose.

1. Talk to him, but not about getting married!

If you ever want your guy to ask you, it has to be his idea. So don’t even mention the word “marriage” or you’ll have him running for the hills. Instead, talk about your future, like what kind of dog or house you’d like to have. Show him that you are committed to him for the long haul.

2. So once he finally “comes up with the idea to get married” he has to get you a ring.

But not just any ring will do for you, so once again you have to drop him hints and make him think that he came up with the idea for XYZ ring. The best way to do this is to pick up a copy of Engagement 101 Magazine and look through the magazine together making sure that he circles the ring styles you really like. He can then take the magazine to the jewelry store and find the perfect ring for you.

3. Wait! Patience is a virtue, and in this case a very important one to follow.

Once he buys the ring it could be months before he ask you the question. He wants this to be a memorable and romantic occasion you both will cherish the rest of your lives, so give him some time to plan. Or maybe you’ll get lucky and he will just pop the question randomly.

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Comments (8)

 

  1. brandy stahl says:

    how about if you wanna ask the man to marry you the whole have a baby and getting ready to move out on our own is here wheres the marriage

  2. Elaine says:

    In a healthy relationship marriage is always on the table; it may take time to get to the point of actually making it official, but when two people are truly connected, compatible and are in love, there are no secrets; they know they want to be together it’s just a matter of time.

    On the other hand, if a man is dragging his feet, chances are, he just doesn’t see you as his future wife.

  3. LLB says:

    I just clicked on this link from facebook and found unbelievably sexist drivel. Not all women are marriage-obsessed gold diggers; not all men are commitment-phobic children. Not all women “need” a diamond “sold” sign on their finger to get married; not all men need to be tricked into proposing. Some women propose to men; MOST couples decide to get married together. Women don’t wait around for men to propose when they decide it’s time. Gross, gross, gross disgusting marketing. And god only knows what human and environment damage was done to get that little bauble that women just MUST have to feel like she’s finally trapped her man. So gross on so many levels.

  4. admin says:

    LLB, thank you so much for contributing to the conversation. However this is not the only article on our site. We all have different ways to enjoy this life that is given to us. You should read other stories. Love e101

  5. SIKU says:

    I REALLY ENJOY THE ARTICLES…..MY BOYFREND AND I ARE TALKING ABOUT SETTLING DOWN BUT STL WAITING ON HIM TO FINALLY POP THE QUESTION….THE STORYS HERE REALLY INSPIRE ND I CAN PROUDLY SAY LOVE IS MY RELIGION..

  6. Mandy says:

    Running for the hills if you ask for marriage? Lol maybe you shouldn’t be in a relationship with someone who gets scared if you mention marriage. I flat out asked my fiance when he’s going to marry me. He stuck around. We’ve been together for 15 years and if i couldn’t flat out tell him what i want without him freaking out then i’d find another partner.

  7. pam says:

    Wat if he had already bought the ring n he is still keeping it so wat does that mean or he is just doubting

  8. ANDREA FOXX says:

    how will i know my bf will pop the question to me even tho i waiting on the ring?

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