Is it politically correct for the woman to propose to a man, if so, should she give him an engagement ring?


The Rules of Engagement are starting to evolve as you can see in this week’s piece by Michael O’Connor. If you feel that you want to propose, why not? However it’s not for every couple. If you feel that you are both equal in this relationship and that this move won’t hurt his pride as a male, go for it. If you are worried about his ego, I think you should be more subtle and start addressing your future and a possible wedding. If he is ready, he should make the engagement move. If he is not, you should not force it and decide if you are ready to wait.

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  1. shameka says:

    I don’t see anything wrong with it, in fact I want to propose to my boyfriend and we are both in agreement with me doing it anyway. My only dilemma is how do I do it without him suspecting anything since he figures things out anyway. I say go for it and good luck.

  2. ANDREA FOXX says:

    i dating my bf for almost a year now and i ask him to marry me? or should i wait until he put the ring on my fin ger to propose to me? what do u think?

  3. admin says:

    Give it time, it’s way too early.

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