Our men. We love them. They’re sweet. They mean well. But sometimes their tongues get the best of them. If there are any guys out there reading this, take notes. You’re going to want to avoid this subtle, backhanded insults which can (and have been) uttered during the big moment.

1) You’re not who I expected to marry, but….
Seriously? It doesn’t matter how nice the other half of this sentence is. You lost her.

2) I sized the ring up since I heard people’s fingers swell when they gain weight the first year of marriage.
It may be romantic that you’re trying to think ahead. But this is an epic fail.

3) Oh…you wanted me to ask your dad’s permission first?
Whoops. Forgot something that was important to her? Big no-no. Find out what she dreams of happening pre-proposal to make sure you don’t offend anyone.

4)  You’re definitely the one I want to marry, even though you do that annoying thing where…
Not the time to bring up cute, quirky traits that drive you bonkers. You may think you’re being clever. She’s going to think you’re being a jerk.

5) Remember that time we did XYZ? I totally fell in love with you then (but it actually was with a different girl?!)
We know you’re nervous. But make sure you have the stories you want to mention planned out before you get down on one knee. Don’t be that guy who mixes up his ex girlfriends during this big moment.

What’s the dumbest thing you’ve ever said or had someone say to you?

Nikki